This is probably one of the hardest but most important aspects to the
spell casting. Over the past 10 years of offering spells to people on
the internet, this happens to be the area people least want to
follow. Why you ask? Its because people are normally obsessed
over their situation before they even contact myself or any other
spell caster. Realizing this is up front for most people is the
single most important thing a person can do for themselves. Please
don't think that I am saying every single person is obsessed, but
about 90% of them are.
you may be thinking to yourself, I am not obsessed over my
situation. Well, lets break this down.
is by definition: 1. Compulsive preoccupation with a fixed idea or
an unwanted feeling or emotion, often accompanied by symptoms of
anxiety. 2. A compulsive, often unreasonable idea or emotion. That
is the definition of it. Lets break it down.
- A person with behavior patterns governed by a compulsion. That
means that you are not in control of your actions. You are
constantly thinking of your situation and because of this you make
decisions for the actions you do based on this.
- fixation, an unhealthy and compulsive preoccupation with something
or someone. That simply means that you are fixated on someone and
can't let your situation resolve itself. Because of this is creates
an unhealthy emotional environment for yourself and those around
you. This does include children, family, and friends.
Feeling or emotion - This, when dealing with love spells, is the
feelings of betrayal, loss of trust, and even a feeling of violation
of the relationship.
- A state of uneasiness and apprehension, as about future
uncertainties. When you can't stand still, pacing the room or even
not being able to sleep, this is a clear clue of this. Also with
most people crying is a normal emotion they feel when they have
anxiety. Just know, its perfectly normal for everyone in this world
to cry. It help your soul to cleans itself.
these things in mind you must try to work on these symptoms that you
are feeling. You can work on them through aspects of taking up
hobbies, working more, or many other things. One of the most
constructive things you can do is divert the obsession or working on
your situation and making yourself a better people and in a better
situation so that the people around you see positive things
happening. To many times in live when bad things happen, and we have
all seen it at one point or another, we tend to fall apart and don't
work on the normal things that we would be doing normally. This can
cause loss of job, the bills to get behind, loss of home, loss of
vehicles, etc. There are so many different aspects that this can
effect that it can seriously destroy a persons life and take them
many years to get back to where they were before. Because of this,
it also effect the way that your love will see you. You hearts
desire will see you slipping through the cracks of life after the
breakup and not moving forward as you normally should in life. As
yourself one question, would you want to be with a person that is
totally dysfunctional? NO! We want to be with a person that is
strong and has a will to make it in life. Someone that isn't an
emotional drain from the beginning of the relationship.
how this applies to releasing the spell. Once people have been
obsession over their situation they normally turn to their spell
caster and then start to obsess over their spell. They divert the
obsession from the individual to the spell. This is a VERY bad
thing. You should never obsess over a spell period. It will in fact
cause it to take longer to happen. You must divert the action to
something like building your life so that when the person comes back
they see a strong individual. This doesn't mean that you have to act
as if you have never missed them, but instead show them how to move
forward with life and be happy for the things that you do have and
the time that you have had. Knowing that soon you will be able to
get your love back and you will have many more fun times. You will
be in a great relationship that you and your hearts desire have been
obsess by calling friends many many times a day or even their spell
caster. When do this you are not releasing the spell and you are causing
your situation to be worse. The people that are talking with you are
not helping you. They are keeping your obsession going by giving you
a way to continually vent every day over the situation. This does
not mean that you can not talk with people about your situation, but
you should keep it in moderation. Its very hard to do, I know, but
it is something that you do need to work on.
So in short, try to get a grasp on your life and things will work
out and the love spells or any spells will be VERY successful for
you. Also read the page on "preparing
yourself for a spell" as it has allot of information that will
help you before you order a spell as well.